1. The game can be easy or hard depending on the cards you are dealt.
2. You have no control over the cards you are dealt.
3. A game may look hard, but if you make the right choices, it becomes easy.
4. A game may look easy, but if you make the wrong choices, it becomes hard.
5. Sometimes you have to start again…and again…and again.
6. You can’t win them all no matter how hard you try. Get over it.
7. There are no bad cards. Whether a card is good or bad depends on where it winds up in the spread.
8. When the game is difficult, a little help from a friend either puts things right or at least reassures you that you are not totally stupid because he couldn’t do it either.
9. It’s just a game. Enjoy it.
10. When the cat jumps up on your lap it is always a good idea to take time out from the game and snuggle him.
